The Power of Stories.
I recently had the pleasure of hearing a Native American
storyteller. Her name was Dovey. She is a member of the Lakota. She told us that, in her culture, children
are never punished for bad behaviour. The
Lakota believe that if a child is continually disciplined she will learn that
discipline is something outside themselves and never learn self-discipline. So do they just let them run wild? No, they use stories.
When a child does something
dangerous, or rude, or in some way unacceptable. A parent, or more often a
grandparent, takes them aside and tells them a story from the great treasury of
traditional stories. The story is of
course related to the child’s behaviour and shows what effect that act has on
the world and on the individual. And
this approach works,
Stories are more than mere entertainment,
they can change behaviour. I was travelling
one time with a friend in the car of a boy-racer. He was way over the speed limit thinking he
was Louis Hamilton and I was terrified.
I begged the boy-racer to slow down.
He laughed and called me a stick in the mud. My friend made no comment on the driving he
just told us a story of a speeding car and a hideous accident. The boy-racer slowed down and stayed within
the speed limit for the rest of the journey.
When I write stories I want my
readers to enjoy them. A lot of what I
write is humorous because I want to entertain but I also because humour is
subversive. When people laugh they open
their hearts and their heads. I want to show how humans behave and what makes
them do what they do. But often there’s
more to it and sometimes I do not realise what it is till the writing is
done. Sometimes it takes someone else
to tell me what it was!
Writing Burning Bright gave me the
chance to laugh at the madness of the Celtic Tiger years and also to look back
to a time when we Irish had little else but out pride. And the question I’m asking myself and my
readers is; can we hold on to the best of both worlds?
Hi Y'all!
ReplyDeleteThanks for introducing my Human to a new writer.
Y'all come by now,
Hawk aka BrownDog
This is such a rich post. Wow. I love the idea of using stories for curative purposes. The Lakota are some wise folks. I used to teach Waldorf Education and Rudolf Steiner was a big believer in fairy tales for this same reason. We would tell the same fairy tale, word for word, to the children for about a month and by the end they knew it by heart.
ReplyDeleteI'm so looking forward to reading Burning Bright AND Despite the Angels.
ReplyDeleteCan I wait til May please? lol
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